When you are having problems in your relationship, couple counselling offers a safe haven where you can explore and express your feelings, longings and fears in a safe way that pulls your partner closer and enables you to resolve issues.
Before giving up hope of healing your relationship, it's worth seeking out a couple counsellor. Of course, therapy isn't a magic cure and while a counsellor facilitates healing and change, it requires that you are both willing to change and committed to working on yourself and your relationship.
As an emotionally focused therapist and specialist couple counsellor, I can support you in undertaking a journey of exploration that takes you right to the heart of your issues. I work with the neutrality, specialist knowledge, skills and experience needed to help heal emotions and transform relationships. Everything discussed is strictly confidential and handled with warmth, gentle care and sensitivity.
I work with couples and individuals in a warm safe supportive environment which enables you to:
I highly recommend these books Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for A Lifetime of Love and The Love Secret: The revolutionary new science of romantic relationships by Dr. Sue Johnson, the originator of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples, with whom I have also trained. These books are to be used by all who seek a 'lifetime of love'.
Alternatively, if your relationship isn't in distress but has become like a wilting plant in need of some watering, then a Hold Me Tight (HMT) couples workshop might be what is needed to spring it back to life.